Kalei and her best friend are fighting and have been for a few weeks now. They don't talk to each on the phone so they only way they voluntarily communicate is through myspace messages and me. Her "friend" Christina is upset that Kalei doesn't ever call her or make time to hang out with her. Kalei does have a pretty busy life, not because of the things she is doing, but because of how big her family is. She's expected to look after 7 brothers and sisters. I know how hard it is. I try to spend as much time over there as I can and I try to help out as much as possible while I'm there so I know that it can be very draining but pretty damn rewarding at the same time. It took me a while to understand the way her family works. Family is the most important thing to them. It was hard for me to swallow the fact that I don't come first but once I did it got a lot easier. Christina doesn't know Kalei like I do and I don't think she ever will. That's why she doesn't understand what Kalei has to go through. I will always be there for Kalei. No matter what. I also know that I have to go to Kalei to keep communication open because she's just not that kind of person. She's had to deal with a lot of shit in her life already and I just want to make things a little easier on her. I may not be a shining example of that but I'm trying very hard. I love Kalei. So fuck Christina. If she can't accept people for who they are, take a hike.